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How to stop being a mistress?

November 24, 2008 · Filed under Relationship · Tagged , ,

Giving love to someone is never a sin but there is exception. If you fall in love with someone who already committed, then you are having a sin. Many people love to be a mistress because they are blinded on the feeling they have. It is a dangerous feeling that can kill any home. Many mistress women are receiving a little time from committed men. Most of them are getting mad and jealous about this situation. If you are mistress, you need to think about your future.

Family is build with love and trust. No one wants to see any member of the family to get hurt. As a mistress, you never think about the people you will hurt. In this way, you are being selfish to other people and making your life miserable. If you think that, this committed man is the only one for you then you think it wrong. Learn to open your heart, mind and eyes to the people who surround you. Many single men can be a potential lover.

New Beginning is always waiting for you to come. It will not be easy for you to leave the life of a mistress but think about self. You will realize that you are still lucky because you have another chance to go on with a happy life. If you really want to be in a happy relationship, then being a mistress is not the solution. Now, if you are willing to receive the true love that you are longing to have. Here are some ways to help you stop being a mistress:

Think about yourself
Before anything else, think about yourself. Are you contented to be on the 3rd or 4th priority? Do you love to receive little time from him? Do you love to hide going to other place, when your together?  Do you love to receive a call, anytime he wants? Do you love to think how he kiss and hug his wife? For sure, the answer is no. Think about the pain you will receive, if you continue your relationship.

Think about his wife
If you are the wife and you know that your husband have the mistress. Do you like it? Are you going to shut your mouth? Of course not. So, learn to stop it because you are hurting someone.

Think about his children
If you are the children and you found out about your father having a  mistress. Are you going to be happy? Are you excited? Of course not. The person you admire most makes you feel disappointed. For sure, you will be prodigal to your father.

Think about your own family
Parents want their children to have the best of both worlds from career to love life. Do you think they will be happy to see with that kind of situation? Do you think you can make them proud? Of course not. Never let them think that they have done wrong in taking care of you .

Think about your future
As a single woman, there are many opportunities waiting for you. Learn to look and give them a chance. It can help you to achieve your dreams and become a better person that you can be.

It is hard to leave this kind of situation but it is harder to continue. If you really love the committed man, help him to go back to his wife even if it hurts. Remember that they promise to be together until the rest of time. You need to think that you will be happier with someone who can share every moment of his life without stealing it to anyone.

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4 Tips to bring back your partner’s trust

November 24, 2008 · Filed under Relationship, boyfriend-girlfriend, family · Tagged , ,

The most important ingredients in a relationship is love and trust. Each ingredient cannot go along without one another because there is no sense of continuing loves without trust and vice versa. Thousand of people have thousands of situations, which makes their relationship different with each other. Admit or not there are situation where in you lost the trust of your partner because you have done something that hurt them so much. Most of the causes are cheating, lying and pretending. Although, you have done these things, you still want to bring the good relationship you have before with your partner. Love does not easily fades but the trust is hard to gain. It is not easy as saying sorry and everything will bring back again. It takes a long of time and effort.

Many people are experiencing this situation. No matter how hard they cry and say sorry, nothing happens. If you really want to bring back the trust of your partner, crying and saying sorry is not only the solution. If you really want to make things work out again, think about the things you had done. Try to analyze how you can improve yourself to be a better person for the one you love and for your own sake. If you found what is wrong with you, do not blame yourself. Take that experienced as a lesson and forgive yourself. In the way, you can be sure that you will not do things that can hurt your partner. After realizing everything, it is time for you to bring back the trust of your partner. Here are the following tips to help you:

Never give up
Always think about the situation of your partner not your situation. The person who feels the pain here is your partner. Do not give up no matter what you hear specially if it is true. Show and let him think that you really feel sorry.

Be sincere
All the things that you will say should come from your heart. Be sincere especially if you keep a promise. Learn to avoid things that can give you another sin.

Make an effort
Saying sorry is not enough especially if you cheated your partner. You should prove that you would not do it again. Words are not enough, action is always needed to make things flow in the right way, you want.

Show Love
It is no secret that you had done a mistake. Always learn to show him that you love and willing to do anything for your relationship. It will be easy for you to show love, if it is coming from the heart.

Love combine with trust means long lasting relationship. The mistake you had done before should be a reminder for you to stop hurting your partner. Always take care of the relationship; you both build with love and trust. Never let any situation or people to break it. Keep in your mind that it is easy to commit sin anytime and anywhere but hard to gain trust.

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